How do you go from hating God to falling into God? I found a new God … the one I could trust.

Have you ever done a trust fall? It’s a team building exercise where one person stands on a chair, table, or a higher platform with their back to the rest of the group. The rest team then forms two lines standing shoulder-to-shoulder with the two lines facing each other. The idea is to have the elevated person fall straight backward between the two lines and into the waiting arms of their teammates. (Still not clear? Check this out.)

If the falling person trusts the team and goes straight backward with their body like a board and parallel to the ground, and the team members stand there and try to take their portion of catch, the weight of the falling person distributes easily across the group so no one person bears too great a load.

It’s a simple exercise for those doing the catching. It can be terrifying for the person who’s falling.

Moving beyond hating God through blame, is like an ongoing trust fall with God. Thus, falling into God.

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While I’m sure someday I’ll regret using this language, Christianity is fundamentally a story about Jesus overcoming the “bad guy.” Why will I regret it? For two reasons:

• First, in our typical way of thinking, the bad guy is, well, bad. There’s something fundamentally wrong with the bad guy and the ultimate goal is his defeat. But Jesus doesn’t do cops and robbers. His frame is not America vs. Radical Islam. It’s not even about us and them. In fact, Jesus the whole point is that Jesus doesn’t see the “bad guy” in the same way we think of bad guys. Instead, for Jesus, overcoming the “bad guy” is about transformation and healing. You know, sort of like Gru in Despicable Me.
• Second, the bad guy is overcome by violence, power, and strength … and Jesus uses none of these.

When all the pretense and theological language is stripped away, this is the fundamental question of atonement. Atonement literally means “at-one-ment” … it’s about bringing that which is separated back together. It’s the idea that something ripped apart humanity and divinity. People are disconnected from their source, their ground of being, that thing that bestows identity and purpose. This is why we devote so much time and energy trying to prove ourselves or escape that deep hollow ache within.

While human sin is the easy answer, what isn’t particularly clear is how Jesus overcomes sin. Western Church history offers two primary answers. The following reviews each of those and offers my thoughts on a third option.

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I spent most of my life hating God.

Yes, I know as a good Christian (whatever that’s supposed to mean) I’m not supposed to say that and most of the people who know me will be shocked to read it. But there it is.

Honestly, I didn’t realize it until I finally watched The Shack. While watching, three things happened:

• Crying more in two hours than I have in the last two decades.
• Celebrating I’m not the only one who has undergone radical shifts in my understanding of the divine (thus discovering play).
• Recognizing that I spent most of my life hating God.

Let’s explore the third a bit more.

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Today. Who are you and where are you today? Yes, life is a journey. Yes, there’s a destination, but what happens along the road matters more than where you end up. It’s about a process instead of a product. That’s why my life today is all about discovering play. If you want to embrace this adventure, you need to start with three questions:

1. Where do I think I’m going? This is your believed destination. It’s where you think you’re going right now. Odds are, this will change. But that doesn’t matter. You just need to know where you think you’re going so you can answer the next two questions.
2. What do I need to do to get there? If your believed destination is your final destination, then what do you need to do today to move in that direction? What do you need to say yes to? More importantly, what do you have to say no to? What do you need to learn? Who do you need to spend time with?
3. How far can I go today? This is the most important question. It’s also the most painful and demands the most honesty. It insists you admit that this journey will have a tomorrow. And a day after that. Most likely, it requires many days after that. Yes, you want the payoff now, but that’s not how this works. Instead, in time, you will discover that they true reward is in the journey and the process. So, instead of wistfully dreaming of something off in the distance, this is the question you need to focus on.

What does it look like to answer this question? Truthfully? Honestly? Brutally?

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