Okay, so I should start of saying that I'm well aware that I'm setting myself up to get hammered here because, for those of you who recognize the name, George Banks, you realize it comes from the movie, Mary Poppins, and, after giving mfer all kinds of grief for bringing up Pollyanna on a recent episode of the Super Average Podcast, well, enough said.
Anyway, Mary Poppins is on my radar because Robbie has decided that it's his favorite movie. At first, we thought he always picked it because it was in the standard issue, monstrously huge, Disney VHS box that really jacks up any storage system. However, when we moved other Disney movies to the forefront, he started picking through all of them until he found Mary Poppins. So, in our home lately, it's been Mary Poppins on a daily basis.
This morning, Robbie was all stuffed up and couldn't sleep so we came out to the living room, I gave him some medicine to help with his stuffy nose, and we popped Mary into the VCR. Luckily he fell asleep in my lap about 15 minutes later and I was able to dose off as well, that is, until I heard chimney sweeps dancing on the roofs of London and singing, "Step in Line". My eyes opened, my head cleared, and I realized that this scene comes right after the whole bank incident that results in the stuffy and emotionally disconnected George Banks to lose his job.
The sweeps dancing scene is followed by a conversation between Burt and George Banks that serves as the impetus for Banks to reconsider his priorities and, by the end of the movie, has him lovin' up on his kids like a daddy should.
So, right after watching this, I do a quick scan through the RSS feeds and run across an "occasional update" by jWinters on being a workaholic. Now, I don't have workaholic issues according to the quote on j's blog, but I do have issues with being a passionate worker (my work is like a hobby that pays so I, all to often, happily put in long hours, be it at home or on the road).
The problem is, being passionate about one area of vocation (work), can often result in the neglect of other vocations (being a husband, dad, etc.). This means that for those of us who love our work, we need to be extra careful to make sure we maintain an even greater passion in our more important vocations. This seems to be what we get from George Banks at the end of Mary Poppins, after all, he ultimately remained a partner at the bank, but he also had his family as a priority.
As I woke up this morning with Robbie sleeping safe and sound in my arms, I felt like I was doing a reasonable job ... but there have been other times where I know I've failed. Moreover, with the launch of the Writings in the Wilderness LHM Lent devotions site (next week), the Fishbowl in a couple months, and the eLife getting ready to go live, I know that the coming months will present many opportunities to be overly passionate at work and negligent at home.
So, how do I try and counter this and remain passionate at home? I try to not do work on Wednesday and just spend the day with Robbie while Anita is at work. Then, when my mom has Robbie on Thursday while Anita works, I try and do some of the housework so Anita isn't stressed when she gets home. I'm also trying, although often failing, to head to bed when Anita does so we can have a few minutes to talk in the evening. Making a point of flirting with Anita throughout the day also seems to keep things balanced. However, I'm curious what others out there are doing so that you look more like the second George Banks than the first? It would be great to hear from workaholics and passionate workers.